nonbinary transmasculine

they/them/their/themself pronouns pls

bisexual as in attracted to my gender and attracted to other genders.

not a weed blog, but i am a frequent cannabis user and i enjoy drugs and altered states of mind. i usually remember to tag those posts with 'weed' or 'drug use mention' or something similar, so they should be blocked by blacklists if needed 

I am incredibly inconsistent about my trigger tags but only because no one has asked me to tag any specific trigger warnings. If you want anything tagged, just let me know.

please be nice to me I am just a little nonbinary person trying to figure out how to make that work in our very binary society and venting about stuff on tumblr and for now I just wanna feel good about it thanks.

look at my face and tell me I'm cute

30th August 2014

Question reblogged from Invisible Bi Characters with 37 notes

nicodiangelbabe said: (PART1) My school did this play & the main character, a girl named Natalie, meets this really hot guitar playing guy named Chad that won't notice her so she dresses up as a guy so she can hang out with him, calling herself Ed. at one point she's trying to help chad woo a girl & she accidentally kisses him in the process and chad is all weirded out at first and says he needs time by himself to think. and then later, he sings an elvis song talking about how he can't believe he's in love with ed.

bi-characters:

(PART 2) so he quickly comes to terms with the fact that he’s in love with ed, a “boy.” & so when it’s revealed that ed is actually natalie, natalie says “i thought that dressing up as a boy would make you wanna hang out with me more & you could see the real me.” and chad immediately says “well maybe you could put the hat and the beard on sometimes and we could BOTH hang out with ed!” and he basically outright says that he’s bisexual by saying that. it was a great school play to say the least.

I seriously wish more schools would do plays/theatre like this. Like, hey look, it’s bisexuality that is appropriate for an audience of any age!

Also bigender representation?????

29th August 2014

Photoset reblogged from Reesey loves you... xoxo with 26 notes

the-utterly-mad-hatter:

feelin like a bamf <3

Tagged: look an attractive personalso that's some intense make uplike make up that intricate deserves many tumblr notes

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29th August 2014

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so like our last essay is to write a commentary about an issue related to ADHD. I thought, okay i can write about people with ADHD reaching out to each other online and forming a community. actuallyadhd was very helpful for that. 

now it’s like, you can’t use blogs as sources for academic writing but like what if I’m not trying to support my evidence with the blogs, I’m just trying to provide examples of how blogs can help people with ADHD. i’m not using them as academic sources, like I’m not stating facts or statistics and citing a tumblr blog, I’m going, hey people have said that having a “place” online like this has been helpful for them, such as in this blog post where someone decided to see a professional after reading the blog. 

idk i’m just very concerned that i’m gonna have to like start all over idk maybe i can just pull some academic references out of my ass and add it into my essay so I have academic and non-academic references??? idk i’m just anxious that i misunderstood and frigged everything up. 

28th August 2014

Post reblogged from I Write About Feminism with 57,487 notes

katnissofdauntless:

Guys it’s really important during this whole ferguson protest that we as social media DO NOT back down until punishment is dealt to those racists. If we let this movement die, then the oppressors win. I’ve seen stuff like this before and the majority of people stop posting about it within a week. We can’t let that happen, this is too important. so keep reblogging and keep posting until these darn racists are punished for their awful inhumane actions. 

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28th August 2014

Photoset reblogged from patron saint of denial with 57,329 notes

Laverne Cox stanning for Beyoncé at the VMAs

Tagged: i've only ever seen this on mobile and it wouldn't loadit's just as amazing as i thought it would be

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28th August 2014

Photo reblogged from welcome to gay furry trash hell with 2,212 notes

thisiseverydayracism:

As darkness fell on Canfield Drive on August 9, a makeshift memorial sprang up in the middle of the street where Michael Brown’s body had been sprawled in plain view for more than four hours. Flowers and candles were scattered over the bloodstains on the pavement. Someone had affixed a stuffed animal to a streetlight pole a few yards away. Neighborhood residents and others were gathering, many of them upset and angry.
Soon, police vehicles reappeared, including from the St. Louis County Police Department, which had taken control of the investigation. Several officers emerged with dogs. What happened next, according to several sources, was emblematic of what has inflamed the city of Ferguson, Missouri, ever since the unarmed 18-year-old was gunned down: An officer on the street let the dog he was controlling urinate on the memorial site.
The incident was related to me separately by three state and local officials who worked with the community in the immediate aftermath of the shooting. One confirmed that he interviewed an eyewitness, a young woman, and pressed her on what exactly she saw. “She said that the officer just let the dog pee on it,” that official told me. “She was very distraught about it.” The identity of the officer who handled the dog and the agency he was with remain unclear.
Candles and flowers marking the spot where Brown died were soon run over by police vehicles.
The day brought other indignities for Brown’s family, and the community. Missouri state Rep. Sharon Pace, whose district includes the neighborhood where the shooting occurred, told me she went to the scene that afternoon to comfort the parents, who were blocked by police from approaching their son’s body. Pace purchased some tea lights for the family, and around 7 p.m. she joined Brown’s mother, Lesley McSpadden, and others as they placed the candles and sprinkled flowers on the ground where Brown had died. “They spelled out his initials with rose petals over the bloodstains,” Pace recalled.
By then, police had prohibited all vehicles from entering Canfield Drive except for their own. Soon the candles and flowers had been smashed, after police drove over them.
"That made people in the crowd mad," Pace said, "and it made me mad." Some residents began walking in front of police vehicles at the end of the block to prevent them from driving in.
More: http://m.motherjones.com/politics/2014/08/ferguson-st-louis-police-tactics-dogs-michael-brown

thisiseverydayracism:

As darkness fell on Canfield Drive on August 9, a makeshift memorial sprang up in the middle of the street where Michael Brown’s body had been sprawled in plain view for more than four hours. Flowers and candles were scattered over the bloodstains on the pavement. Someone had affixed a stuffed animal to a streetlight pole a few yards away. Neighborhood residents and others were gathering, many of them upset and angry.

Soon, police vehicles reappeared, including from the St. Louis County Police Department, which had taken control of the investigation. Several officers emerged with dogs. What happened next, according to several sources, was emblematic of what has inflamed the city of Ferguson, Missouri, ever since the unarmed 18-year-old was gunned down: An officer on the street let the dog he was controlling urinate on the memorial site.

The incident was related to me separately by three state and local officials who worked with the community in the immediate aftermath of the shooting. One confirmed that he interviewed an eyewitness, a young woman, and pressed her on what exactly she saw. “She said that the officer just let the dog pee on it,” that official told me. “She was very distraught about it.” The identity of the officer who handled the dog and the agency he was with remain unclear.

Candles and flowers marking the spot where Brown died were soon run over by police vehicles.

The day brought other indignities for Brown’s family, and the community. Missouri state Rep. Sharon Pace, whose district includes the neighborhood where the shooting occurred, told me she went to the scene that afternoon to comfort the parents, who were blocked by police from approaching their son’s body. Pace purchased some tea lights for the family, and around 7 p.m. she joined Brown’s mother, Lesley McSpadden, and others as they placed the candles and sprinkled flowers on the ground where Brown had died. “They spelled out his initials with rose petals over the bloodstains,” Pace recalled.

By then, police had prohibited all vehicles from entering Canfield Drive except for their own. Soon the candles and flowers had been smashed, after police drove over them.

"That made people in the crowd mad," Pace said, "and it made me mad." Some residents began walking in front of police vehicles at the end of the block to prevent them from driving in.

More: http://m.motherjones.com/politics/2014/08/ferguson-st-louis-police-tactics-dogs-michael-brown

Tagged: staying angry over here

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28th August 2014

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today’s fun game of life is: 

knowing you need to work on class work but being unable to find the motivation to actually do it

28th August 2014

Question reblogged from Ask a Non-Binary with 143 notes

Anonymous said: So like, I'm genderfluid. I'm positive about that. And I only like girls (dfab's). I'm dfab as well, so would my sexuality be lesbian? I know sexuality and gender dont go hand in hand but I'm kind of confused because there's not a way to describe liking only dfab's when I change between genders so often (you see, lesbian doesn't work because I go to male sometimes - like now. And heterosexual isn't right because of my female days.)

genderfluidity:

Okay, so: if your question was “I’m exclusively attracted to women, but my gender changes, what should I call myself?”, the answer is “some people use gynophilic or gynosexual, and others just use ‘lesbian’ sometimes and ‘heterosexual’ other times, and others choose whatever one is more common, and others altogether just say ‘attracted to women’”.

But that’s not your question. Your statement here is “I’m exclusively attracted to DFAB people”, and from what I can tell I assume that is meant to mean “I’m exclusively attracted to cis girls”, but it could just as well mean “I’m exclusively attracted to DFAB people who are not trans men”. And that is a transmisogynist statement, especially since you’re considering using the word “lesbian” (as a woman) or “heterosexual” (as a man) in a way that excludes trans women.

Trans women are women. If you use a word that implies attraction to women but then implicitly exclude trans women from that word, you’re saying they’re not really women, not to you. I’m gonna go through a pre-emptive FAQ before I get bombarded with asks about this, if that’s all right. These are all questions I’ve seen directed at other people who’ve talked about this. The below discusses genitalia and sex explicitly, be warned.

But Key, you can’t choose who you’re attracted to!

Uh. I think I’ve made it very clear on here that I don’t subscribe to “born this way” rhetoric. I don’t think that is a true statement, and I believe that attractions are often shaped by what is societally valued, and that it is our responsibility to deconstruct why we like what we like and think about whether that’s reinforcing any power imbalances. For example, I was pretty much exclusively attracted to white people in high school, and that was internalized racism on my part! Deliberately questioning that, as well as exposing myself to blogs and other media which were less white-centric (and also thin-centric) was something I had to do. 

Now, I’m not saying that liking who you like at the moment is bad. I’m not saying that makes you a bad person. I’m saying that you have the responsibility to question that and think about it and work out why you feel the way you do, and whether that’s, objectively, something you should improve on. And I’m definitely saying that conflating “attracted to women” and “attracted to DFAB people” is something that needs work.

But I’m just attracted to a particular figure, and DMAB people don’t tend to have that.

Twofold answer to this one: firstly, see above with regard to questioning your attraction. Secondly, uh, there are plenty of DFAB people who won’t have that “particular figure”. And ten bucks says there are DMAB people who do. I know at least three pretty, long-haired cis men with delicate features who would be far more likely to pass a casting call for female modelling at a pinch than I would. More to the point, it is transmisogynist to assume that all trans women “look like men” or “have male figures” or whatever the heck, and just categorically not true. I mean, Laverne Cox.

I just don’t like penises! It’s misogynist and ableist toward me as a survivor with trauma issues related to penises to say that I’m being transmisogynist!

Also a two-part answer here. First, not all trans women have penises, and some trans men have penises! There’s a thing called surgery! It exists! Secondly, I get that. And I mean “I have PTSD and viscerally understand that”, not “I guess I can see where that comes from”. And I’m still telling you that defining your attraction that way is transmisogynist. Y’know why? Because when you see somebody on the street you’re sexually attracted to, you’re not going “damn, that is sure a fine lack of peen there, it’s so sexy.” You’re looking at the person as a whole. I don’t know what in particular makes somebody sexually attractive for you, but it sure as hell isn’t, at first glance, their not having a dick. Not wanting to have penis-centred penetrative sex or not wanting to see a penis at all doesn’t mean you are never attracted to people with penises. It doesn’t even mean you can’t be in a relationship with somebody with a penis, or have sex with somebody with a penis! Oral sex exists! A wide variety of other sexual acts exist! Some people with penises don’t actually want to involve their penises in sex, just like some people with breasts like to wear binders during sex! Hell, as an asexual person who doesn’t like sex at all, I’ve found ways to be intimate with sexual partners who have penises that don’t cross my boundaries and still involve them getting off!

You’re asexual, you don’t understand!

I’m not gonna dignify this one with an answer like other people have - all I have to say about this one is “fuck off”.

If there’s any other questions, I’m happy to field them, but I might not respond immediately. I’m sorry if I’m being unkind, anon, but this does need to be addressed in general, and your question was a useful place to start. I think this was something you’ve probably never thought about, and I hope this was helpful to you too. If you want to talk to me privately about your attractions or whatever, I promise I’ll listen and be constructive and gentle - you can contact me at klutzygeek, or in a number of other ways here.

-Key

Tagged: they nailed itthis is beautiful

Source: genderfluidity

28th August 2014

Photoset reblogged from Self Conceited with 230,785 notes

sandandglass:

Daily Show correspondent Michael Che tries to find a safe place to report from.

Tagged: perfecti'm white tho //

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28th August 2014

Chat reblogged from Everyone You Love Is Queer with 53,373 notes

  • me: *owns 264 unread books*
  • me: *buys 17 new books*
  • me: *rereads harry potter*

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